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Manifesting and Law of Attraction with Feng Shui

Manifesting and Law of Attraction with Feng ShuiSuzanne Roynon Published on: 19/05/2025

Implementing traditional feng shui in a home is a high-speed route to manifesting success.

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What I learned from an Interiors Therapist during my Divorce

What I learned from an Interiors Therapist during my DivorceBy: Suzanne Roynon Published on: 03/04/2023

Reclaiming your home and your home environment is a crucial part of moving forward after any break up.

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Divorcing A Home – should YOU stay or go?

Divorcing A Home – should YOU stay or go?By: Suzanne Roynon Published on: 01/01/2023

I could have chosen a place which worked for the lifestyle I wanted and had leverage to get the settlement I deserved.

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Guest Blog : Should I end my marriage - Claire Black

Guest Blog : Should I end my marriage - Claire BlackBy: Suzanne Roynon Published on: 10/03/2021

<p><img src="https://assets.grooveapps.com/images/5f2dbc08287a0d00378fbb40/1632593090_Copy of Guest Blog Claire Black insta.jpg"></p><p><span style="background-color: transparent;">I’m&nbsp;thrilled to share my space with fantastic Break up and Divorce Coach,&nbsp;</span><strong style="background-color: transparent;">Claire Black.</strong></p><p><span style="background-color: transparent;">Claire discovered the benefits of Interiors Therapy for her own home and recognised the many ways&nbsp;in which the process could help&nbsp;both her clients and professional contacts in law and mediation who&nbsp;all have the same goal – a smooth, fair and respectful&nbsp;divorce.</span></p><p><span style="background-color: rgba(255,255,255,var(--tw-bg-opacity));"><img src="https://interiorstherapy.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Book-cover-front-640x1024.jpg" height="239" width="149"></span></p><p><span style="background-color: transparent;">Claire is the author of&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.claireblackcoaching.com/buy-my-book" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(139, 23, 57);">‘Break Up From Crisis to Confidence’,</a><span style="background-color: transparent;">&nbsp;a ‘must read’ for anyone considering divorce or struggling with the&nbsp;aftermath of ending a relationship.&nbsp;She coaches clients in the UK and internationally from her base in beautiful Somerset.</span></p><p><br></p><p><strong style="background-color: transparent;">Should I end my marriage/relationship?</strong></p><p>Before the end of my first relationship after my marriage ended, I spent months stuck feeling confused about whether I should leave or not.&nbsp;Although I was in a relationship I knew wasn’t making me happy, I had conflicting feelings.</p><p><br></p><p>I occasionally saw little glimpses of the partnership I had believed we would have, and I would feel hope that we could be fixed.&nbsp;I also felt afraid of being judged for having ‘another failed relationship’.&nbsp;The mixture of hope and fear of shame kept me stuck, even though deep-down, I knew that it just wasn’t right for me.</p><p><br></p><p>If you are in that place of feelings stuck, not sure whether to stay or go, end or continue, here are 5 questions to help you:</p><p><br></p><p><strong style="background-color: transparent;">How will I feel in 5 years’ time if I stay and it is still the same?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you keep doing the same thing, you will keep getting the same results.&nbsp;This is great if what you are doing is working, and you are happy in your relationship.&nbsp;But take a moment to consider how you will feel in 5 years if you do nothing, and nothing changes.&nbsp;What will you hear around you?&nbsp;What will you see?&nbsp;What will you feel?</p><p><br></p><p><strong style="background-color: transparent;">What choices do I have?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Choices give you power – it’s when you feel you only have one option that you are stuck.&nbsp;Two options means you have a dilemma.&nbsp;Three or more options gives you choice, and the option to make a conscious decision.</p><p><br></p><p>So consider what choices you have.&nbsp;Perhaps they look something like this:</p><p><br></p><ol><li>I stay and nothing changes</li><li>I stay and suggest that we work on our relationship together with a counsellor/coach</li><li>I stay and I make changes to my own behaviour, to see if I get a different result</li><li>I leave.</li></ol><p><br></p><p><strong style="background-color: transparent;">What do I value, and what could be improved?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Make two lists – one of the things you do like and value in your spouse and in your relationship, and one of the things you would like to change or be improved.</p><p><br></p><p>What does the picture look like?&nbsp;How do you feel when you look at your piece of paper?&nbsp;Does one list outweigh the other?</p><p><br></p><p>Are there things on one list that you can’t change?&nbsp;If you are honest, is what you are looking for a complete change in your spouse?</p><p><br></p><p>What are you willing to compromise on, or change in yourself?&nbsp;What would you be willing to commit to doing to improve the relationship?</p><p><br></p><p><strong style="background-color: transparent;">Imagine your best friend sitting beside you?&nbsp;What would they say?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Sometimes your friends can see things that you can’t.&nbsp;I remember a friend asked me who I turned to for support.&nbsp;I reeled off a load of people, and she then observed that I hadn’t mentioned my partner.&nbsp;That shone a lightbulb on the situation for me, and within a week, I had asked him to leave.</p><p><br></p><p>Sometimes we need a lightbulb to go off, to ask the one question that will make all the difference.</p><p><br></p><p><strong style="background-color: transparent;">What is the worst that could happen?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Ending a relationship or marriage can be fraught with fear, and so can staying in a marriage that isn’t happy.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Sometimes we can fear both leaving and staying.&nbsp;Leaving comes with fear of the unknown and staying might come with a fear that you will feel stuck forever.&nbsp;So you stay paralysed, unable to decide on one way or the other.&nbsp;Fear isn’t logical; it’s subconscious and it can be contradictory.</p><p><br></p><p>Facing your fears head on is challenging, but if you are honest with yourself about what your fears are, you can start to think logically about how to overcome them.</p><p><br></p><p>Take a big piece of paper and write down all your fears.&nbsp;Getting them out of your head and onto paper can be cathartic as it stops the fears swirling around inside your head.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Then ask yourself these questions:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>What could I do to overcome or mitigate this fear?</li><li>What information do I need to become clear around this?</li><li>Who could I talk to about this?</li><li>Who could help me prepare?</li><li>What choices or options do I have?</li></ul><p>&nbsp;</p><p>In my work as a Divorce Coach, I help you to find clarity and explore your options, in a safe space with empathy and understanding.&nbsp;I know how confusing and overwhelming it can be to feel stuck, and I know that you might have wrestled with this for months or even years.</p><p><br></p><p>So I hope my questions help you to gain some clarity, to explore your options, and to feel that you have choice.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Contact Claire Black at:&nbsp;<a href="http://www.claireblackcoaching.com/" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(139, 23, 57); background-color: transparent;"><strong>www.claireblackcoaching.com</strong></a></p>

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Guest Blog : Should I end my marriage - Claire Black

Divorce their stuff too

Divorce their stuff tooBy: Suzanne Roynon Published on: 05/11/2020

What is it that Divorce Lawyers, coaches and relationship specialists have discovered which is making such a difference for their clients?

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